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I was once shy,so was my husband. It was a sad and lonely time. I did something similarexcept it was all part of a fantasy i had about him and I. I was given advice and never used it. Now I have been with my older husband for 17 yrs. And the life of these 2 shy people have flourished and still do.
As for the other shy people out there in this world. Do not put your heart on your sleeve. When your true companion is ready to showyou will know what to do. I wish all nothing but complete happiness and bliss. Life is what you make it. Good luckAnne-Marie.
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Fold, unfold legs, foot constantly moving. Up and down in sit. He has lightly touched me on my shoulders a few times when talking and he did put his hand on my back once when we were walking but… Sometimes after the friendly greeting he is too busy and looks like he is avoiding me, to me.
Also, I have invited him to a couple events. Dear Lacie, It sounds like this guy may have a more difficult time with people than an ordinary shy guy would. This means that even if he likes you it may be hard to have a good relationship with him going forward because of his difficulties in relating to people.
You can continue to make flirty contact with him, but I would also look around to begin dating men who are less socially insecure, who seem to be more obviously into you. I really like this guy.
He is the sweetest. But lut much about him. I have no idea what questions i should ask him. I just want him to open up to me and myself to open up towards him. We are both shy but, secretly i think he may like me??? Just notice little things you like in what he says or what he is wearing and comment on them!
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I just know his name and he is a shy guy and a football player. How should I start talking to him. Will he ever like an elder and a big girl? Is it possible to take a first move?
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Okay, I met him the first day of our class we are both in. We were both very early and he kept looking at me and blushing. When class started he sat right next to me and continues to since. I have seen him looking at me every class. Lately he has also been running his hands through his hair. Last week when our class went to the computer lab he sat right behind me. I think he sat down somewhere else, saw me and moved.